Hearing what people say important for good communication.
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Have you ever laughed at auto-correct? That happened to me when I was trying to text my sister-in-law about the new Girl Scout cookie, “Toffee-tastic.” She was trying to order some cookies and I was trying to tell her the cookie was gluten-free.
Auto-correct on my phone kept changing the word several times to things like “toffee-tactic,” “toffee-spastic” and even “toffee-gastric.” We kept going back and forth until we were both laughing out loud. We finally got the information exchanged, despite auto-correct.
Communication — whether texting someone far away or talking to a family member in the same room — can get confusing. How many times have we assumed to know what the other person said and gotten it wrong? It’s like the game of telephone where we start out whispering one thing and end up with something hysterically different. I tried this with my family and we started with “Lightning McQueen likes loaded lunches,” and ended up with, “Lighting machine likes bloated bunches.”
Christine Novak, MA, LCPC, is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and owner of Changes Counseling, LLC. She has been an individual, couple, youth and family counselor since 2001. If you would like to contact her, you may do so at christine@changescounselingllc.com.